I know that it is attached to the fusebox but I'm not real sure where at or even what it looks like. Is it a white looking part located at the bottom and have 2 plug in connectors runnig into it?

I just took mine out of my 96 Voyager. According to what I've read on this site, your's would be in the same place. The BCM iteself is attached to the backside of the fuse block. The 2 white plugs at the bottom will have to be unplugged and the fuse block will have to be removed from its mounting. The BCM is held to the fuseblock with a few screw/nuts in the side of the BCM. Don't forget to disconnect the battery before removing the fuseblock/BCM. Someone on the site also mentioned removing the diagnostic plug right in front of the fuseblock - that was a good idea to avoid getting cut up on the back of the screws that secure it. By the way, I assume you may be having problems with your BCM? If so, I sent mine to a shop for repair ($145) vs a salvaged part ($90-$100). It's only been a few days, so I have not gotten it back yet to check it out. If you're interested in a repair, go to Directauto.com. Good luck.