where is the fuse for the headlights and for the rear window wiper motor ?

in your fuse box!!! underneath the drivers side dash on the side foot panel. just pop the cover off, and there is all of your fuses. also, the cover should tell you exactly which fuse is which. there is also a relay for your headlights in the relay box under the hood.

where is the connection for the fog lights ? im not sure if theyre even connected

look under the front bumper of your car, at the back of the fog lights there should be a plug going to each of them. Past that good luck on finding anyother plugs. Check fuses and relays, if not the bulbs could be burned out.

well i tried the fuse and no change, i see the light is on saying the fogs are on but they arent

do fog lights use the same lights as driving lights ?

using just the driving lights are kinda weak i feel like i have one eye closed

the bulbs are different, check in your owners manual.

But if your fog lights arent working check the fuses if thats fine then check the bulbs, if those are fine then check the wiring. Always start with the simplest things.

i think the fog light bulbs are H3's and the headlight bulbs are 9006's. i cant remember for sure but they ARE NOT the same. also, your fog lights put out more watts than your headlights, so they do help ALOT with seeing things.