How can i dissable them without having any performance problems when i turn my lights on?(one light brighter than the other)

What are you talking about?

One light brighter than the other? Huh?

Sometimes if you dissable the DRL's(Daytime Running Lights) and you dont do it right. There is a short in your relay, and it causes one of ur lights to dim, giving it the effect of one being brighter than another...
Now can anyone answer my question?

Check out this link:

http://www.geocities.com/zq8gmcsonoma/drl.html