Can't find anything in the chilton manual to tell me where it's located... Also any way to bypass or test the relay?

The relay center is located below and to the right of the glove box (ref '93 service manual):

Relay center positions:

A-K
B-J
C-H
D-G
E-F

A-Unused
B-LH front door isolation (RPO AU0 only)
C-Rear defogger (SSE & SSEi) Fog lamp cut-out (SE)
D-Trunk release (RPO AU0 only)
E-Retained accessory power #1(RPO KP2 only)
F-Interior lamps (RPO C97 only)
G-Fog lamp
H-Fuel pump
J-Retained accessory power #2(RPO KP2 only)
H-Unused


Position H is the FPR. Why do you want to bypass the relay?