Does anyone know where i could find aftermarket grilles for the 04 model?

yeah that would be nice but i have not seen one yet!!!

Here, check this one out. That's actually my car. Not a great picture, but a great looking grille set.

http://files.automotiveforums.com/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=15171&password=&sort=1&cat=501&page=1

yeah it would look better if it was black...i am not into the chrome

www.stillen.com

They have 2 different grills for the 04 Spec.
One is a 9-bar, and one is a 14-bar.

Not sure if the pictures are up yet, but they have them.

If you don't like the chrome you can always paint it....

yeah well really i dont care for the bars at all...i would like to get the stock look for the 03' spec v it i could do that it would be great!!