I purchased a keyless remote for my 97 accord and have been unable to install it. FCC ID KOBUTAH2T can anyone help with this????????

alarm system installation instruction->http://www.hparts.com/pdf/18016.pdf

optional security equipment->http://www.hparts.com/pdf/18020.pdf

I purchased a keyless remote for my 97 accord and have been unable to install it. FCC ID KOBUTAH2T can anyone help with this????????
I just bought the same remote for my 98 Civic. I read that that was supposed to be the right one, but I'm having trouble getting it to work too. I've seen two different sets of instructions, but neither one seems to work. Can anyone tell me if this is the right or wrong remote?