Sunroof Issues w/2002 Special Edition--HELP!

I have taken it to the dealer 4 times now (yes, this is getting a bit repetitive!) and am going in for time #5 on Tuesday. They have tried to put the Honda Factory dampening tape on it 3 times, but it keeps coming off because apparently I wash and wax the car with the sunroof open, or at least that the line of BS I was given. On time #4, it was "adjusted" and worked for a little while. I am now back to square one and want to jump out of the moving car after a while b/c the rattle is so bad. Any advice from anyone who has had this happen and what suggestions can I give the dealer??